Summer is a prime season for receiving invitations to friends’ beach or country homes. When staying overnight or longer, there are certain guidelines to keep in mind. Here are a few ideas on how you can be a well-bred guest.
As an ideal houseguest, you should be mindful of how you will impact the host and the house you will visit. To start with, keep your visit short. You need to make it clear whether you are bringing another visitor so your host knows precisely what’s in store. Don’t bring your pet unless your pet was explicitly invited.
Packing suitably is fundamental. Don’t take a huge amount of stuff. Rather, pare your items down to the essentials. Equally important is to insure that you’ve packed satisfactorily. It’s prudent to have a short discussion with your host early on to determine what activities are in store during your visit. You’ll be ready for trekking, horseback riding, or hitting the fairway.
Do whatever it takes not to put your host out in any capacity. One way is for you to bring your own toiletries. In the event you have special dietary requirements, bring those items along.
It’s a good idea to attempt to get an early sense from your hosts about what sort of houseguest they’re anticipating. In other words, are your hosts hoping to spend significant time with you, or should you plan on making plans that don’t include them? Remember, though, your host has the last word in mapping out the weekend.
Put some serious thought into the hostess gift you will give your host upon arrival. Examples are a favorite wine or champagne bottle or a special coffee table book. Another wonderful gift is a lovely vase with fresh flowers.
During your visit, cleaning up after yourself is an indubitable necessity. Whether it’s making a sandwich or simply brewing an espresso, the best houseguest leaves no trail behind.
Lastly, remember to write a short thank you note to your host when you return home. The 3-4 sentences you write will be a thoughtful way to end your visit.
As a reminder, five fundamental points are:
- Keep your visit short.
- Clean up after yourself.
- Pack only fundamental items.
- Bring a hostess gift.
- Write a thank you note.
There are many more ideas for you to consider. This site includes more points for you to think about. Remember, the goal is for you to show impeccable manners and be a welcomed guest to an inviting household.
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